A moral/social reversal has taken place in my lifetime that seems even more troubling. I was taught in my public school that family was the bedrock of society. As we have witnessed the decline of the family, some of us believe society has declined; others suggest society has improved and we simply need to redefine “family.”
Now the idea of getting married to someone of the opposite gender, rearing children and attending church is considered an “alternate lifestyle.” A Washington Post article explains, “NBC reporter Skyler Wilder wrote: ‘David Wise is at the top of his sport. He’s always smiling among his friends and competitors, however, he’s not like the rest of the field. He is mature ... At such a young age, Wise has the lifestyle of an adult. He wears a Baby Bjorn baby carrier around the house. He also attends church regularly and says he could see himself becoming a pastor a little later down the road.’
“But it was the [article] title that evoked a strong response ... ‘David Wise’s alternative lifestyle leads to Olympic gold.’”
Labeling the values and behaviors of a young man with traditional Christian values as an “alternative lifestyle” is correct, in my opinion. Several decades ago, Wise’s maturity and behavior would have been relatively common (although never common enough). In our day, it is actually becoming an exception, especially for young adults in the limelight. Yet it is no rare exception either; it is just no longer the norm. Thus society has reversed itself: what was once considered dysfunctional and immature is becoming the new norm. The mature and functional are considered the oddballs, the new dysfunctionals who mysteriously surface, projected through a time vortex from the past. Who would have thunk?
Ed Vasicek is pastor of Highland Park Church and a weekly contributor to the Kokomo Tribune. Contact him at firstname.lastname@example.org.